When you connect with one audience member.

When you connect with one audience member, you connect with the entire group.
Watch this short clip–>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dYimYrZ9fls
That’s right the techniques is called, look to one but speak to all. When you do that you’re allowing the audience to process what’s being said and incert themselves in the situation. It’s basically done by using you words things like, have you, should you, would you, and so on.
One of the major results you’ll want to get from your audience is for them to feel as if you were not speaking to the entire audience but speaking directly to them.
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